I just got my first dirt bike YZ426! Can the ride be softened? My butt hurts! I know I need to stand up more, but I would like the bike to soak up bumps a little better. What setting should I use? I am 6' 3" 180lbs, no fat. Also the bike moves about 3" when I sit on it. Should I tape a pillow on this brick they call a seat?