BlackCR25098, on 27 May 2012 - 02:11 PM, said:
...But still, that is my worst fear I've gotta say.
Don't let fear get in the way of love, man ... BUT, don't confuse love as something you obtain while thinking with the wrong head, lol.
That was my problem. 14 years ago I was a typical 22 years old male, and instead of looking for a woman who cherishes loyalty and love, I picked one who made my wedding tackle happy. I learned to start appreciating her with my other head too, so I got myself emotionally involved in a relationship my d* started.
So yeah, I suppose I am partially to blame for blinding myself to WHO I really decided to put my faith in and trust.
Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.
Anyhow, while picking a "good girl" can't necessarily guarantee you a happy life, the odds are stacked in favor of that being the outcome, compared to my lot right now.
Going thru a divorce is tough man, because women plan on leaving you well in advance of actually doing it ...
So my wife has already gone through the emotions of this split, and just now I'm getting the memo.
I've had the tears, and the anger, and now I'm moving into the acceptance stage, and just wanting to get the F outta here where all my memories exist.
The only reason I've lived in this miserable rainy, gray cloud hanging over your head, state ... is because of her.
So gladly I will shove off. I'm going to take a nice road trip down to Texas, find work for a few months until my dog is eligible to fly over to Oz, and then I'm gone!!
Robust economy, motorcycles, sunshine, and women are 2 to 1 in the 30-40year old range. Cougar city!!
I suppose I'm not as broken up as I could have been, because after all, what am I really losing except a woman who is like most other women, totally self-centered.
Now I'm not trying to sound misogynistic, but that is just the plain truth, most women think a relationship has to be completely about them.
They try to brainwash the society into thinking that the world revolves around them ... but it doesn't.
If I'm lying, then explain the purpose of diamonds? Other than for a b* to show it off to her friends to make them jealous or feel like crap because their man "only" got them a $3K ring.
But you try asking a woman to buy a $3K motorcycle ... something that ACTUALLY has a value, and watch her start considering whether the bike can BENEFIT HER.
Illogical, self-centered, stupid consumers ... in general of course.