Sad Boobies.

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  • High Maintenance

Posted 09 October 2009 - 06:16 AM

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Yeah i know, I come out of trees say something random and then regress back into the darkness here..

anyway..

I am curious, and need real honest input. This is important.

As you know, I am 5 months PP. I just had my second baby in May.

I am by no means complaining about my body, I shrunk back down to my normal midget size, minus all my muscle tone and endurance :(.

After my first child, i was young and my boobage really wasn't too heavily impacted, I mean, they were "meh" but whatever. a boobs a boob when they're tiny.

Well after this pregnancy and breast feeding #2.....

Lets just say if nipples could hiss, i might need a charmer for these snakes titties.

When i get out of the shower, i see breakfast on my chest. Sunny side up that is.

What once used to be small, nice B cup boobies, are now sad, used and abused Triple A walnuts in a sock.

At 26, with a tone small pint size body...It's a crying shame. D tells me all the time, they arent ruined, he doesn't care, whatever blah blah, and I think he is lying through his teeth.

So here's my dilemma.

I should be happy my small little bean bags are cancer free, and do not hinder my athletic abilities..
then again, i look like a 12 yr old boy with granny titties.

I should be spending the money on my kids, or a family vacation..
Then again, a boob job will boost my confidence and make me feel good about my appearance.

Then I say, how f-ing superficial is THAT, I mean honestly. To go and get a boob job, because I want to look better...a BOOB job, that would be like a guy getting a ball job, for saggy ball syndrome (that's real btw)

I dont know. I just want my old ones back, I dont want huge boobs for display,



what do you think?

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  • hellyhans

Posted 09 October 2009 - 06:21 AM

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on a serious note...
Aren't there work outs that tone,and works the chest area that would maybe make them boobs look better?
I noticied on my gf after 1year shes been training with before after pics.. that her boobs look/feel firmer, and don't point in the same direction.. loll (am I really typing this? lol )

  • DavieB

Posted 09 October 2009 - 06:24 AM

#3

I say go for it! it will give you the confidence you need and will for sure make your hubby look at you a little more and other guys also. Don’t say you don't care if anyone else looks at you because we all like to be noticed!

  • High Maintenance

Posted 09 October 2009 - 06:26 AM

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DavieB said:

I say go for it! it will give you the confidence you need and will for sure make your hubby look at you a little more and other guys also. Don’t say you don't care if anyone else looks at you because we all like to be noticed!

actually i hate when people look or stare, it makes me uncomfortable...

now I care what he thinks. and that's about it.

Oh what i look like in a suit at work.

  • High Maintenance

Posted 09 October 2009 - 06:27 AM

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hellyhans said:

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on a serious note...
Aren't there work outs that tone,and works the chest area that would maybe make them boobs look better?
I noticied on my gf after 1year shes been training with before after pics.. that her boobs look/feel firmer, and don't point in the same direction.. loll (am I really typing this? lol )

sorry but no. after two pregnancies, and breast feeding, you just don't get that back.

  • hellyhans

Posted 09 October 2009 - 06:34 AM

#6

Well personally, I think your too young to have a boob job.
And they way people look at it these days is... you have to types of people:
1: wow check out her tits!
2: what a dumb whore, i can't believe she's got a boob job and shes so young, she needs the attention.
Its sad, but thats the way it is.

BUT, if it will make YOU feel better/more confident. Do it.
If its just to make people look at you and say.. hey shes hot... don't

Personally I don't like fake boobs, alot of chicks these days get them just because alot of them are "doing it".. But in your case, its not the same.. it will make YOU feel better, so do it in that case and screw what other people think

  • hellyhans

Posted 09 October 2009 - 06:35 AM

#7

Oh and don't forget the before/after pics, lollll

Also, maybe you should talk to some girls that got the implants and see how it affects riding, if it does...

  • pvillelabs

Posted 09 October 2009 - 08:02 AM

#8

I'm all for aftermarket enhancements. In fact, it's on my to do list. After nursing two children for a total of 30 months, I figure I did my fair share..and think of all the money I saved in formula. That can go for parts.

If you're going to do aftermarket parts, you want to do it for you...not someone else. If you're proud of your body, but not specific parts. Change them. No more superficial than getting your hair colored, nails done... Just don't go overboard and end up looking like a barbie doll.

Go silicone, not saline. They look soooo much better, and after reading tons of material, they're just as safe. Think of a zip lock baggie (saline) vs. a water balloon (silicon) filled with water. You get the same rigid effect with saline if you're small or lose weight.

  • ah1214

Posted 09 October 2009 - 08:04 AM

#9

I would take some time to think about it. If you really feel like it is something you want to do then go for it. After my second my baby I got a tummy tuck and it made me feel way better about the way I looked.


hellyhans said:

Well personally, I think your too young to have a boob job.
And they way people look at it these days is... you have to types of people:
1: wow check out her tits!
2: what a dumb whore, i can't believe she's got a boob job and shes so young, she needs the attention.
Its sad, but thats the way it is.

BUT, if it will make YOU feel better/more confident. Do it.
If its just to make people look at you and say.. hey shes hot... don't

Personally I don't like fake boobs, alot of chicks these days get them just because alot of them are "doing it".. But in your case, its not the same.. it will make YOU feel better, so do it in that case and screw what other people think

If a boob job is done correctly. (Not going from an A to DD) no one can tell they are fake. I know a couple of women who have had them done and would do it again.

  • High Maintenance

Posted 09 October 2009 - 08:39 AM

#10

ah1214 said:

I would take some time to think about it. If you really feel like it is something you want to do then go for it. After my second my baby I got a tummy tuck and it made me feel way better about the way I looked.




If a boob job is done correctly. (Not going from an A to DD) no one can tell they are fake. I know a couple of women who have had them done and would do it again.

yeah yeah..having the 'pocket' for it...it wouldn't even look fake i bet

  • DRZCatastrophe

Posted 09 October 2009 - 08:45 AM

#11

Um, #1-GIVE YOUR BODY TIME. Every mommy I've ever talked to has said that it took a while to recover the droopy empty sack look.

#2-You're already in your fifth month of your third pregnancy. GIVE IT TIME. You've got, what? At least a year before you can even think of doing anything.

#3-As I am (without ANY pregnancy!!!!!) into a 32 FREAKING E!!!!, I'm, uh, not feeling a bit sympathetic right now. Sorry. However, I know there are docs out there who can lift and return your boobies back to where they were without additions. One of my bosses wives had it done and is really happy. If I remember correctly the cost of the boob lift and tummy tuck was around $9K or so.

  • DirtyBikeMike

Posted 09 October 2009 - 09:00 AM

#12

Maybe this isnt my place, but as a husband of a woman who was in the same situation I would say go for it.

My wife had the saggy boob thing after pregnancy. she dropped the weight and got her body back, but her breasts were, as you described, breakfast food looking. after her surgery she is never been happier. It is not all about looks; it gave her the confidence to go out and have fun again without feeling self concious.

If you have the money, do it I say. If you feel better about yourself it will rub off on the ones around you.

**EDIT** sorry about the avatar. I usually dont post in the thumpette's forum, so I hope this isnt offensive to anyone.

  • DirtQueen

Posted 09 October 2009 - 09:18 AM

#13

I would do it! Of course, I would definitely do some research and talk to anyone you know that has had the surgery. If I was in your situation, I would do anything to make myself happy, and more confident about my body. There's a difference between getting breast implants for your reason, and getting brest implants to flash in everyones face. You know?

  • High Maintenance

Posted 09 October 2009 - 09:24 AM

#14

DRZCatastrophe said:

Um, #1-GIVE YOUR BODY TIME. Every mommy I've ever talked to has said that it took a while to recover the droopy empty sack look.

#2-You're already in your fifth month of your third pregnancy. GIVE IT TIME. You've got, what? At least a year before you can even think of doing anything.

#3-As I am (without ANY pregnancy!!!!!) into a 32 FREAKING E!!!!, I'm, uh, not feeling a bit sympathetic right now. Sorry. However, I know there are docs out there who can lift and return your boobies back to where they were without additions. One of my bosses wives had it done and is really happy. If I remember correctly the cost of the boob lift and tummy tuck was around $9K or so.


a year? i was racing 2 months PP! lol

and there's no recovering from this. they were bad before..and after 8 years, still the same. then this pregnancy finshed them off. :(

  • High Maintenance

Posted 09 October 2009 - 09:25 AM

#15

DirtyBikeMike said:

Maybe this isnt my place, but as a husband of a woman who was in the same situation I would say go for it.

My wife had the saggy boob thing after pregnancy. she dropped the weight and got her body back, but her breasts were, as you described, breakfast food looking. after her surgery she is never been happier. It is not all about looks; it gave her the confidence to go out and have fun again without feeling self concious.

If you have the money, do it I say. If you feel better about yourself it will rub off on the ones around you.

**EDIT** sorry about the avatar. I usually dont post in the thumpette's forum, so I hope this isnt offensive to anyone.


hahaha I enjoy a pretty boob once in awhile...

  • boisedave

Posted 09 October 2009 - 09:54 AM

#16

As a married dude who has been through this all I can offer is my perspective. First, if you Hubby says it doesn't bug him -- believe him. He's not just being nice -- he means it. Trust me when I say that men really [I mean really] enjoy our spouses bodies -- no matter what shape they are in. What makes your spouse sexy is not necessarily the shape and size of things but how she makes you feel.

That being said -- if aftermarket snoops are going to make you feel better -- you should do it for yourself. The sacrifice is huge financially, but if it will make you happy and more confident, then everyone wins. A good friend of mine from school had hers done [She went from B to A after a baby] and it did wonders for her. Her husband also was very pleased.

Life is too short -- do what make you happy.

  • mbaird

Posted 09 October 2009 - 10:17 AM

#17

1). Just don't go too big ! A women I know went to what looks like EEE's . She looks absurd .. and then she tried to pretend like she hadn't gotten one.

2) Guys can't tell by look or feel if it's done right and to a reasonable size.If they say they can they are either a liar or a plastic surgeon...lol
Only those that know you well will be aware , and they'll forget about it after a short while .

3) guys like all boobs ,big or little....... lol

  • DRZCatastrophe

Posted 09 October 2009 - 10:22 AM

#18

DirtQueen said:

I would do it! Of course, I would definitely do some research and talk to anyone you know that has had the surgery. If I was in your situation, I would do anything to make myself happy, and more confident about my body. There's a difference between getting breast implants for your reason, and getting brest implants to flash in everyones face. You know?

I totally agree with needing to fix what's broken after the demands of pregnancy but um, being fuller and bigger doesn't necessarily make everything better. But again that's my perspective. :busted:

If this is your last child and you're going to make sure this is your last, go for it!

  • GCannon

Posted 09 October 2009 - 10:53 AM

#19

HM, with the way you ride, What about crashing with implants? Is the "Case" the jump over the bars "Front face slam and slide" going to present technical problems for the enhancement???

  • pvillelabs

Posted 09 October 2009 - 11:32 AM

#20

GCannon said:

HM, with the way you ride, What about crashing with implants? Is the "Case" the jump over the bars "Front face slam and slide" going to present technical problems for the enhancement???

They are very, very forgiving. Sure, if you do crash really hard, you could break one. But, if you crash that hard, breaking a boob is going to be the least of your worries! They're replaceable.

Also, make sure you go to a dr. that places them under the muscle, not over the muscle. Much more natural looking and sagging down the road is not as noticeable. Yep, I've done my research and my best friend has them so we've had lots of talks!

My best friend in a natural (no steriod usage of any kind) fitness and figure competition recently. And, yes, her face is beautiful, just not showing it here!

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