Ride all the time with a passenger.
I weigh 170 and the passenger is 150.
On the stock seat (which our asses are now used to) we can ride for a good 2 hours without having to stop.
I have a 05 model which is stock except for a minor carb change.
You will need the carb change with a passenger if you ride in areas that get over 80F as the bike runs too hot.
The carb change was to drill out the brass cover for the pilot screw.
On my 05 the stock screw was about 1.5 turns out and wayyyy too lean.
I changed the screw to 2 1/8 turns out and it runs much better and does not get so hot. If you live in a colder climate, you may want to start with 2 turns and adjust in 1/8-turn increments from there.
We learned that the recommended tire pressure on the stock Bridgestone trailwings is one of the best settings - 25Psi front and 29Psi rear.
Do not overfill much past this as you will see that the rear tire gets extremely hot - extra pressure just increases this heat. The pressure also effects the tire life.
I tend to slighly preload the front fork by starting on the brake a bit early. This keeps the front-end dive to a minimum.
Other than that the bike sits lower with a passenger and I have been up to 70+ on rural twisties and the bike handles fine. Also ride in rain and have had no problems.
For a single, the bike has some
torque - compared to the others I have owned, the DR is the least effected by a passenger, both in power and handling in my opinion.
Ride safe.