I'm dating two guys for the past month and not one sends flowers or anything for Valentines Day. Glad I didn't send them anything! UGH! So lame guys!

You're dating TWO guys and wanna b!tch about how neither cares enough to send flowers? Reality check my dear, what do YOU care about?

50ccchick said:

Maybe they found out at the same time that you are a HO? I could be wrong and if so I apologize. Maybe if you dated 5 guys you'd better your chances of getting presents? Maybe, quite possibly its you? Just sheer guessing going on at this point but hey, we're here to help...

Once again, TC, You have a unique flair for stating the obvious.

Good on ya.

50ccchick said:

So, it's okay for YOU not to send anything, just because YOU didn't receive anything?? Hmmm,no gold diggers here....

wolf_child said:

Hey like you Wolfy, I'm just here to help...

Jeesh, you complain about not getting flowers, I complain about my girlfriend of 3 months breaking up with me.. on valintines day.

I guess a plus is that i can work on my dirtbike now.. heh.

Ouch, boys! No calling people a "ho" ok? Especially not while you're IN the women's forum.
Remember how many different degrees of "dating" there are. Maybe she's not in a fully committed relationship to either one, and just sees them both casually.
Calm DOWN for cryin' out loud.

Firecracker said:

I'm pretty sure TC was refering to gardening tools.

Firecracker said:

Sorry. I did say MAYBE. It just sounded so Goldigging Hoish from a guys point of view. I'll put my hands behind my back and wait for L2F to escort me outta here... I still blame THORINA!!!!!!

Firecracker said:

SO then she really shouldn't expect anything from them. She didn't get them anything, so why should they. Maybe they are seeing some other girls to and spent their burger king money on them.

Firecracker said:

This statement makes me wonder. WTF is a degree of dating? In my mind you're either with someone or your not. To say you just wanna be with someone till you get a better offer is just , well, (sorry FC) HO'ish. This goes for guys too. Juggling multiple partners is just nasty, I don't care HOW you try to sugar coat it.

To me it sounds as though she is thier side hump and they have deeper relationships with someone else. Just putting out there the Colby Bryant sindrom.

I totally agree with you Wolf! Dating more that one at a time, and then expecting them to both send flowers? You get what you get, and you don't throw a fit!

One at a time. If you juggle, then you stand a chance of dropping what you throw up in the air. That's just reality.

Pick me, pick me, pick me, pick me!!!! I KNOW, I KNOW!!!!!!


Ever think that maybe it's because you're out whoring on them?


My girlfriend broke up with me because I was dating 2 other chicks...I can't believe it, it's so not fair!

"I still blame THORINA!!!!!!"

Hey!!!!!!!!! *I* wasn't throwing around the H word!!!!!!!!!!

Ok....I thought it....but I didn't *say* it!
Different degrees of dating....hmmm....ok....those guys you lead on and have no intention of doin'....and the guys you dig....so you're already doin' them. Hmmmmm....ok....if I was doin' the guy....I'd expect flowers, or something.
If I was just leading him on....then....well....then he TOTALLY lost the chance of me EVERY doin' him!

But.....I was never gonna do that guy anyway. But it's always nice to have a full belly of fine food before going out for a late night with the "bad boy" that has no money for expensive things.


Either way.....one of the slubs shoulda got her something!

Of course....this scenerio changes drastically if:
1) You're not doin' either of them
2) you're doin' both of them
3) you're doin' both of them....and then some

Scenerios #2 & 3....well....come on....that makes ya ...well, ya know........and NO one gets....well, ya know.... flowers.....ever.
*I* didn't get flowers
I got a card and chocolates. Hmmmm....maybe I should rethink all of that....hmm......

peace,
janette

I still think you guys are over-analyzing, and overreacting. Who said "dating" equals "doing?" Where did whoring around come into it?

Maybe she's just met them both.
Maybe she doesn't know either of them very well, or doesn't see them often.
Maybe she doesnt WANT to be serious about either of them.
Maybe a night out at the movies or dinner now and then is all it is, and all it needs to be.
There's no rule that says every relationship has to be headed toward marriage! Hell, you guys would be whining just as bad if we were talking about a girl being TOO serious, because then she'd be "husband hunting" or something.
Don't let your bitterness affect your judgment on a situation about which you know very little.

When I get in trouble I'm blaming Thorina because.... ahhhh BECAUSE!!! That's reason enough!!!! Thorina held me down and MADE ME SAY IT!!!!!! HO!!! NO!!!! HOOOOO!!!!!!!!! NO!!!!!!!!! Let me up THORINA!!!!!!!!!!

I don't think 50ccChick is serious. I think she just put this post up just to see if she can get a rise out of guys. If she was serious, she would be responding back trying to justify herself. 50ccChick, you wicked city woman(I got this from an old I Love Lucy Show) , get back here and apologize to all of us men of the world. But only one at a time please.

TC.....votch owt.....I haf my vaz of mokingg yu do vat I vant!
Bordrdrdus.....git my chainzzzz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't know at all what he dating deal is/was/will be....really don't care, either. If she wants to come on and give a little detail.....that would be fine.
But....the original post did come across as a tad....er....um....on the verge of golddiggery sounding.

To seriously answer....if I was only casually dating someone....I really wouldn't get mad if they didn't send flowers. That's what "casual" dating is all about. The occasional date, without all the serious relationship committments.
It stops being "casual" when things like that are expected.....and it's also rather expected at that point that it's an exclusive sort of thing.

peace,
janette