[High Maintenance]

Yeah i know, I come out of trees say something random and then regress back into the darkness here..

anyway..

I am curious, and need real honest input. This is important.

As you know, I am 5 months PP. I just had my second baby in May.

I am by no means complaining about my body, I shrunk back down to my normal midget size, minus all my muscle tone and endurance :(.

After my first child, i was young and my boobage really wasn't too heavily impacted, I mean, they were "meh" but whatever. a boobs a boob when they're tiny.

Well after this pregnancy and breast feeding #2.....

Lets just say if nipples could hiss, i might need a charmer for these snakes titties.

When i get out of the shower, i see breakfast on my chest. Sunny side up that is.

What once used to be small, nice B cup boobies, are now sad, used and abused Triple A walnuts in a sock.

At 26, with a tone small pint size body...It's a crying shame. D tells me all the time, they arent ruined, he doesn't care, whatever blah blah, and I think he is lying through his teeth.

So here's my dilemma.

I should be happy my small little bean bags are cancer free, and do not hinder my athletic abilities..
then again, i look like a 12 yr old boy with granny titties.

I should be spending the money on my kids, or a family vacation..
Then again, a boob job will boost my confidence and make me feel good about my appearance.

Then I say, how f-ing superficial is THAT, I mean honestly. To go and get a boob job, because I want to look better...a BOOB job, that would be like a guy getting a ball job, for saggy ball syndrome (that's real btw)

I dont know. I just want my old ones back, I dont want huge boobs for display,



what do you think?

[hellyhans]

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on a serious note...
Aren't there work outs that tone,and works the chest area that would maybe make them boobs look better?
I noticied on my gf after 1year shes been training with before after pics.. that her boobs look/feel firmer, and don't point in the same direction.. loll (am I really typing this? lol )

[DavieB]

I say go for it! it will give you the confidence you need and will for sure make your hubby look at you a little more and other guys also. Don’t say you don't care if anyone else looks at you because we all like to be noticed!

[High Maintenance]

I say go for it! it will give you the confidence you need and will for sure make your hubby look at you a little more and other guys also. Don’t say you don't care if anyone else looks at you because we all like to be noticed!

actually i hate when people look or stare, it makes me uncomfortable...

now I care what he thinks. and that's about it.

Oh what i look like in a suit at work.

[High Maintenance]

http://www.klr650.net/forums/images/smilies/worthless.gif

on a serious note...
Aren't there work outs that tone,and works the chest area that would maybe make them boobs look better?
I noticied on my gf after 1year shes been training with before after pics.. that her boobs look/feel firmer, and don't point in the same direction.. loll (am I really typing this? lol )

sorry but no. after two pregnancies, and breast feeding, you just don't get that back.

[hellyhans]

Well personally, I think your too young to have a boob job.
And they way people look at it these days is... you have to types of people:
1: wow check out her tits!
2: what a dumb whore, i can't believe she's got a boob job and shes so young, she needs the attention.
Its sad, but thats the way it is.

BUT, if it will make YOU feel better/more confident. Do it.
If its just to make people look at you and say.. hey shes hot... don't

Personally I don't like fake boobs, alot of chicks these days get them just because alot of them are "doing it".. But in your case, its not the same.. it will make YOU feel better, so do it in that case and screw what other people think

[hellyhans]

Oh and don't forget the before/after pics, lollll

Also, maybe you should talk to some girls that got the implants and see how it affects riding, if it does...

[pvillelabs]

I'm all for aftermarket enhancements. In fact, it's on my to do list. After nursing two children for a total of 30 months, I figure I did my fair share..and think of all the money I saved in formula. That can go for parts.

If you're going to do aftermarket parts, you want to do it for you...not someone else. If you're proud of your body, but not specific parts. Change them. No more superficial than getting your hair colored, nails done... Just don't go overboard and end up looking like a barbie doll.

Go silicone, not saline. They look soooo much better, and after reading tons of material, they're just as safe. Think of a zip lock baggie (saline) vs. a water balloon (silicon) filled with water. You get the same rigid effect with saline if you're small or lose weight.

[ah1214]

I would take some time to think about it. If you really feel like it is something you want to do then go for it. After my second my baby I got a tummy tuck and it made me feel way better about the way I looked.


Well personally, I think your too young to have a boob job.
And they way people look at it these days is... you have to types of people:
1: wow check out her tits!
2: what a dumb whore, i can't believe she's got a boob job and shes so young, she needs the attention.
Its sad, but thats the way it is.

BUT, if it will make YOU feel better/more confident. Do it.
If its just to make people look at you and say.. hey shes hot... don't

Personally I don't like fake boobs, alot of chicks these days get them just because alot of them are "doing it".. But in your case, its not the same.. it will make YOU feel better, so do it in that case and screw what other people think

If a boob job is done correctly. (Not going from an A to DD) no one can tell they are fake. I know a couple of women who have had them done and would do it again.

[High Maintenance]

I would take some time to think about it. If you really feel like it is something you want to do then go for it. After my second my baby I got a tummy tuck and it made me feel way better about the way I looked.




If a boob job is done correctly. (Not going from an A to DD) no one can tell they are fake. I know a couple of women who have had them done and would do it again.

yeah yeah..having the 'pocket' for it...it wouldn't even look fake i bet

[DRZCatastrophe]

Um, #1-GIVE YOUR BODY TIME. Every mommy I've ever talked to has said that it took a while to recover the droopy empty sack look.

#2-You're already in your fifth month of your third pregnancy. GIVE IT TIME. You've got, what? At least a year before you can even think of doing anything.

#3-As I am (without ANY pregnancy!!!!!) into a 32 FREAKING E!!!!, I'm, uh, not feeling a bit sympathetic right now. Sorry. However, I know there are docs out there who can lift and return your boobies back to where they were without additions. One of my bosses wives had it done and is really happy. If I remember correctly the cost of the boob lift and tummy tuck was around $9K or so.

[DirtyBikeMike]

Maybe this isnt my place, but as a husband of a woman who was in the same situation I would say go for it.

My wife had the saggy boob thing after pregnancy. she dropped the weight and got her body back, but her breasts were, as you described, breakfast food looking. after her surgery she is never been happier. It is not all about looks; it gave her the confidence to go out and have fun again without feeling self concious.

If you have the money, do it I say. If you feel better about yourself it will rub off on the ones around you.

**EDIT** sorry about the avatar. I usually dont post in the thumpette's forum, so I hope this isnt offensive to anyone.

[DirtQueen]

I would do it! Of course, I would definitely do some research and talk to anyone you know that has had the surgery. If I was in your situation, I would do anything to make myself happy, and more confident about my body. There's a difference between getting breast implants for your reason, and getting brest implants to flash in everyones face. You know?

[High Maintenance]

Um, #1-GIVE YOUR BODY TIME. Every mommy I've ever talked to has said that it took a while to recover the droopy empty sack look.

#2-You're already in your fifth month of your third pregnancy. GIVE IT TIME. You've got, what? At least a year before you can even think of doing anything.

#3-As I am (without ANY pregnancy!!!!!) into a 32 FREAKING E!!!!, I'm, uh, not feeling a bit sympathetic right now. Sorry. However, I know there are docs out there who can lift and return your boobies back to where they were without additions. One of my bosses wives had it done and is really happy. If I remember correctly the cost of the boob lift and tummy tuck was around $9K or so.


a year? i was racing 2 months PP! lol

and there's no recovering from this. they were bad before..and after 8 years, still the same. then this pregnancy finshed them off. :(

[High Maintenance]

Maybe this isnt my place, but as a husband of a woman who was in the same situation I would say go for it.

My wife had the saggy boob thing after pregnancy. she dropped the weight and got her body back, but her breasts were, as you described, breakfast food looking. after her surgery she is never been happier. It is not all about looks; it gave her the confidence to go out and have fun again without feeling self concious.

If you have the money, do it I say. If you feel better about yourself it will rub off on the ones around you.

**EDIT** sorry about the avatar. I usually dont post in the thumpette's forum, so I hope this isnt offensive to anyone.


hahaha I enjoy a pretty boob once in awhile...

[boisedave]

As a married dude who has been through this all I can offer is my perspective. First, if you Hubby says it doesn't bug him -- believe him. He's not just being nice -- he means it. Trust me when I say that men really [I mean really] enjoy our spouses bodies -- no matter what shape they are in. What makes your spouse sexy is not necessarily the shape and size of things but how she makes you feel.

That being said -- if aftermarket snoops are going to make you feel better -- you should do it for yourself. The sacrifice is huge financially, but if it will make you happy and more confident, then everyone wins. A good friend of mine from school had hers done [She went from B to A after a baby] and it did wonders for her. Her husband also was very pleased.

Life is too short -- do what make you happy.

[mbaird]

1). Just don't go too big ! A women I know went to what looks like EEE's . She looks absurd .. and then she tried to pretend like she hadn't gotten one.

2) Guys can't tell by look or feel if it's done right and to a reasonable size.If they say they can they are either a liar or a plastic surgeon...lol
Only those that know you well will be aware , and they'll forget about it after a short while .

3) guys like all boobs ,big or little....... lol

[DRZCatastrophe]

I would do it! Of course, I would definitely do some research and talk to anyone you know that has had the surgery. If I was in your situation, I would do anything to make myself happy, and more confident about my body. There's a difference between getting breast implants for your reason, and getting brest implants to flash in everyones face. You know?

I totally agree with needing to fix what's broken after the demands of pregnancy but um, being fuller and bigger doesn't necessarily make everything better. But again that's my perspective. :busted:

If this is your last child and you're going to make sure this is your last, go for it!

[GCannon]

HM, with the way you ride, What about crashing with implants? Is the "Case" the jump over the bars "Front face slam and slide" going to present technical problems for the enhancement???

[pvillelabs]

HM, with the way you ride, What about crashing with implants? Is the "Case" the jump over the bars "Front face slam and slide" going to present technical problems for the enhancement???

They are very, very forgiving. Sure, if you do crash really hard, you could break one. But, if you crash that hard, breaking a boob is going to be the least of your worries! They're replaceable.

Also, make sure you go to a dr. that places them under the muscle, not over the muscle. Much more natural looking and sagging down the road is not as noticeable. Yep, I've done my research and my best friend has them so we've had lots of talks!

My best friend in a natural (no steriod usage of any kind) fitness and figure competition recently. And, yes, her face is beautiful, just not showing it here!

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[High Maintenance]

HM, with the way you ride, What about crashing with implants? Is the "Case" the jump over the bars "Front face slam and slide" going to present technical problems for the enhancement???

what are you trying to say??!!LOL

I've already heavily considered it. and it does concern me.

That's why I'm getting a chest protector that fits my leatt hahahahahahaha

and it's true..if I'm going to crash hard enough to bust an implant that was tested/smashed/crushed/whatever else they do to those things in the lab LOL my boob will be the last of my worries. I'm more concerned about puncturing lung, breaking a bone, or knocking myself out, which ive done, except for the lung one LOL

[todthebod]

Do it and you won't be disappointed. Your husband is probably secretly wanting you to do it. My wife had it done a few years ago before we had our son. No problems and they look great and she's really happy. Don't go too big but don't go too small. A little bigger will tighten things up more. Smaller and they'll still be a little loose. Find the best doc you can and don't go the cheapest route. Make sure to go through the navel or nipple. I paid $5500 5 years ago and you cannot find a scar or point of entry if you tried. Good luck on whatever you decide.

[slowcoach]

My wife has had 3 kids and although the effects show on her as much as anyone, I really wouldn't want her to go under the knife to make them 'better'. When I was touching them (excuse the reference), I would always be thinking 'these aren't her... they're silocone bags', but then I don't even like her wearing makeup because I like to see her face.

I think you should have this discussion with your husband and do what works for you - we're all different after all.

But if you really want an opinion - learn to love yourself as you are and spend the money on an experience that you will remember and treasure for ever.

[ride200mi]

Go for the boob job....... You'll feel better.....

[captbly99]

Interesting topic HM. I have had 3 kids and nursed all of them...http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y287/captbly99/emoticons/BFing.gif

Of course, it was the best for them and me(nutrition and bonding wise for them), also helped ditch the pregnancy weight quicker, etc.

IF I had the extra money, I think I would get enhancements, I am done with having kids and work out regularly, but I think some nice firm C's would help my body image .:banana: Obviously, I work out, cause I care about my body http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y287/captbly99/emoticons/situp.gif but no matter how much you/I work out, it's not going to help deflated boobs that had the life sucked out of them from kids. :smirk:

I don't think hubby would care either way, it would be more for me than him.
It's whatever makes you feel more confident about yourself, again I am not talkin' double D's, just some nice, full, firm C's! I don't like attention, so I wouldn't want to draw attention for my boobs, I would want them more natural, like not ever having kids natural like.:smirk:

I say go for it!:thumbsup:

[girlpower]

Funny part about this thread is the fact that most the reply's are coming from men.:banana: And I think it's great. They have a lot of great advice for you.:thumbsup: We all like mods right????? I would go for it. If it makes you happy and feel better about yourself Why the heck not? And like others have said, everyone wins. Also like some have said about going to big. I would definitely stay smaller and natural. Fill out what you got I guess. I always think about what the enhancements with look like in the senior years. Yikers, that is a scarie thought. When everything but the enhancments head south. LOL!

[WYMX]

haha, this thread got my attention!

My X said the same things before she got the implants...

Without going into too much detail (I hate typing) my vote would be no, don't get 'em. There are negative consequences that many people do not consider.

I'm sure your old man loves you the way you are.

[brad the best]

nothing to it but to do it .

seriously , it will make you happy . you won't regret it , go for a nice c-cup .

[High Maintenance]

Interesting topic HM. I have had 3 kids and nursed all of them...http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y287/captbly99/emoticons/BFing.gif

Of course, it was the best for them and me(nutrition and bonding wise for them), also helped ditch the pregnancy weight quicker, etc.

IF I had the extra money, I think I would get enhancements, I am done with having kids and work out regularly, but I think some nice firm C's would help my body image .:banana: Obviously, I work out, cause I care about my body http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y287/captbly99/emoticons/situp.gif but no matter how much you/I work out, it's not going to help deflated boobs that had the life sucked out of them from kids. :smirk:

I don't think hubby would care either way, it would be more for me than him.
It's whatever makes you feel more confident about yourself, again I am not talkin' double D's, just some nice, full, firm C's! I don't like attention, so I wouldn't want to draw attention for my boobs, I would want them more natural, like not ever having kids natural like.:smirk:

I say go for it!:thumbsup:

Oh M Gee I need to save that smiley FOREVER!!!!!!!!

http://i625.photobucket.com/albums/tt338/RozKarlin/bf.jpg

[cwf340]

Well I can tell you from personal exp. that he is lieing if he says he doesnt care. I use to say the same thing to my ex.. If getting your boobs fixed will make you happy, go for it!